Friday Things
Hello friends :)
This is going to be a short Friday things, as my grandfather passed away this past Wednesday after a short illness, so the week has been emotional and broken up, and I don’t have a regular Friday things ready to go.
It is not lost on me how insanely lucky I have been to have still had two living grandparents at nearly 40 years old, but my grandpap seemed as though he would be around forever. He was 92 years old, never needed to walk with a cane (he and my grandma walked outside, at the gym, or in their basement every day!), and boy did he love his Oreos.
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I remember calling my grandma to tell her I was pregnant with Joseph. She cried and said at some point in the past, my grandpap had told her he didn’t think he’d live long enough to see great-grandchildren (even though he didn’t have any chronic illnesses, I think he just thought so due to his age). Not only did he get to see Joseph, but he ended up meeting and holding FOUR great-grandchildren. I’m so glad that I was able to give him that gift.
Whenever we would leave my grandparents’ house, he would stand in the doorway (or outside, if the weather was nice) and wave us off; it’s my favorite vision of him and one I will miss dearly. It does make my heart content to know that he's with my dad, who I know he has missed tremendously.
We will be honoring and remembering him with services today and tomorrow; the next time you eat an Oreo cookie, think of him :)
So sorry about your grandpa! I will eat an Oreo for him today, for sure! I’m sure his reunion with your dad was wonderful.
He looks like a wonderful man. So sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss.
I don’t usually comment (I’m a perpetual lurker), but I couldn’t not comment on your post today. I lost my grandpa a month ago tomorrow and I totally understand the feelings you’re going through. Losing grandparents is hard, but it’s harder as an adult, and this 41-year old is missing her grandpa fiercely. For me, my grandpa was worried he wouldn’t be around to see me get married. Luckily, I finally found a guy that met even my grandpa’s high standards, and we were married last April. It was especially sweet to see my grandpa and husband get along so well. They bonded over a shared love of history, and our weekly dinners/visits with my grandpa are some of my happiest memories of my time with him. Hang onto the happy memories you have. They’re what really matter now.
So Sorry for your loss. I do so love your Oreo look a like cake . Thanks grandpa.
Hugs to you and your family.
Michelle, my sincerest condolences at this most diffcult time. May memories of happier times comfort you and your family at this most difficult time.
I had a grandfather I thought would live forever, too. I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you are finding joy in the blessings he had – including living long enough to enjoy being a great-grandfather. You – and your children – are blessed to have had him!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so glad you have so many wonderful memories to cherish and keep dear to your heart.
Michelle, so very sorry for your loss. May you hold your memories of him close and find comfort in them and in knowing many thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is an amazing blessing to have a grandparent or grandparents into your 30s & 40s. I lost my 90 year old grandma (who was my last grandparent) last month. It was a blessing to have her around until my early 40s. Even though you know you’re going to lose them sooner than you ever want, it’s still crushing when it happens.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you struggle through this and adjust to life without him.
I am so sorry to hear this. I can empathize with your loss. Grandparents are such special gifts from God. May God grant you and your family peace as you say goodbye. It sounds like you have a wonderful angel on your side. :)
I am so sorry for you loss, but happy that he got to meet your beautiful kids. May God keep and comfort you and your family in the weeks ahead. The memories you shared of your grandpa will remain forever with you. All my love and deepest condolences.
I’m so sorry for you loss. Many thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather! My passed away in 2012 at age 94; I was 36 and miss him dearly.
He looks like a very special fellow! I am so glad that he got to see so many of his grandchildren and he’d had such a happy and healthy life. Prayers and condolences go out to the whole family from my house in Philadelphia.
Oh, Michelle…I am so very sorry for your loss. The picture you posted made me tear up…such a precious memory to have. I think it is wonderful that both of your sons are old enough to carry a memory of their great grandfather
throughout their lives. They will remember those waves from the doorway and all the shared hugs and warm interactions. As you go through the next days, take solace in knowing you have him watching over your family and waving from a more peaceful place.
Dear Michelle,
My condolences to you and your family on this great loss. He looks like such a lovely man, so happy to be holding his great grand-baby. I give you courage and strenghth to get through these next very rough days ahead. Take the time to grieve and remember the times you had together. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hold those wonderful memories close. I’ll keep your and your family in prayer.
I am so sorry for you loss. May the wonderful memories of your grandfather give you comfort.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs.
I am sorry for your loss, Michelle. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Michelle. I lost all of my grandparents over the years before my kids were born. How I wish that my grandma could have enjoyed them.
I am so sorry to read about your grandfather’s passing. Nothing connects us more to who we really are than our family – that is a gift that each generation gives to the next. I hope that you find comfort knowing that you will carry your grandfather with you forever, not only in the memories that you have created together but in the way that he has helped to shape who you are. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. I will go buy some Oreos in honor of your grandfather.
Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss. My Mother will be 95 and still has her health, too. My two children are very close to her and she is lucky enough to have a great grandson, Charlie. My son takes Charlie every Sunday to visit his great Grandmom and the interaction between them is special. It is memories that we will all have as will you of your grandfather and children together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your fsmily. I will especially think of your grandmother. I am a widow and I know how hard that can be even when we have loving families. 🙏
That is such a sweet, sweet picture of your grandfather cradling your child. I know you treasure it, along with a million memories. I am so very sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your entire family as you go through this difficult time. May God bless and keep each and every one of you. Wednesday, March 20th, first day of Spring, marked 36 years since I said goodbye to my beloved grandfather, only 63 at the time….I miss him still.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Grandparents really are such a blessing in life, I’ll say a prayer for your family today
So sorry for your loss. Lovely picture.
I’m so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man. Thank you for sharing.
So sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a beautiful relationship with lots of wonderful memories. I grew up without grandparents and always tell my (almost grown) kids how lucky they are to still have their grandparents. You’ll have some wonderful memories to share with your kids.