Goodbyes are never easy…

There is no Weekend Dish this week, as you might have noticed there were no new recipes posted, and I haven’t done any blog surfing. This week, sadly, we had to say goodbye to my Grandma. She passed away suddenly, in her sleep, early Monday morning. Even though she was 91, it took us all by surprise. She wasn’t sick and didn’t have any long-term ailments. I had been away for two weeks (and still in Florida) when she passed, and am so thankful that I made time to go and visit her the day before I left. She was an amazing woman, the best grandmother, and will be missed tremendously by so many. I wish I had been able to sit down and go through every single recipe of hers with her, but now I’ll tackle them by trial and error. I look forward to sharing many of her favorites with you, as she loved nothing more than feeding those she loved, watching them enjoy the food, and always prodding whoever she was feeding to eat more.
My grandma hated to have her picture taken, so unfortunately I don’t have too many. The one above is from this past Christmas, and this is her and I on Christmas in 2005:

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When we were growing up, my Grandma never liked dogs. Apparently, it was always a point of contention between her and my grandfather (who was a huge animal lover). However, in the last handful of years she began to soften, and then she absolutely fell in love with Einstein. They were buddies – she loved him, and he was protective over her. I love this picture of them:

While we all naturally feel she left way too soon, I know she is at peace, reunited with my grandfather and probably exchanging political jabs with my Dad. I love you Gram. xoxo
(Posting should be returning to normal next week, and I will be slowly catching up on comments and emails. Thank you all for your patience.)



So sorry for your loss. I had a great aunt 89yo that we lost suddenly. Her sister was the baker but she was my coffee and biscotti companion. I miss her dearly. She too hated her pics taken and wasn’t a big dog fan, just as she started to become fond of my bassett he got hold of her dentures. Your post brought back many memories, thank you so much for sharing. Sending prayers for you and your family during this difficult time.
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. My thoughts and prayers to your family and freinds.
Hurry back, but take your time… we will all still be here, understanding and loving you.
My condolences on your loss Michelle. My own granny passed on when she was about to turn 90. Like yours, she lived a full life and they’re both probably kicking up their heels in heaven now. May God give you the grace and strength to cope.
God bless.
Thinking of you and your family. What beautiful photos and a beautiful grandmother…Take care, Kai
So very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman, and a pivotal influence in your life. You will always see her in your hands as they prepare things in the kitchen, as you share, and in so many other facets of your life.
Peace to you and your family.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Grandma’s passing. Last year I lost my grandma a little over a week before Christmas time. :( My deepest condolences to you and your family.
So sorry for the loss of your grandmother.
I lost my Gramma in July; it hurts a lot. I’m so sorry for your loss. Maybe make some of her favorite recipes. That has helped me celebrate and remember my Gramma.
I am so sorry about your loss, but as long as you keep her in your heart she will be right there beside you everyday!!! You posted lovely photos!!!
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss but I’m glad you were able to visit with her one last time.
It’s too bad she didn’t like pictures–she has a lovely, interesting face! Her bone structure is great. I, too, plan to be very good-looking when I’m old…when superficial things matter far less than bone structure. =)
Thanks for the reminder that my grandmas could go anytime, too. Like yours was, both of mine are healthy in their 90’s, but I’ve been thinking about this possibility lately and looking for opportunities to say all I want said BEFORE they’re gone. How wonderful that you made time for your grandma and didn’t take her for granted. May your good memories always be a comfort to you.
So sorry to hear about your sweet Grandmother. It seems you ladies were close and it is always hard to lose someone you love. Thinking of you!
Crystal
Memphis, TN
This post brought tears to my eyes. You will always have the memories so cheirsh those. The pain will ease a little with time. Your grandmother was so proud of you I am sure. Keep up the great work on your site.
Emma
I hope you and your family find solace in knowing she is at peace, watching over you with your father and grandfather. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sorry for your loss…But it is nice to have warm and loving memories of our loved ones…they are great consolation and a great help in the healing process of our loss… The recipes of grannies and mums are always a treasure. Looking forward to your granny’s recipes.
I’m so sorry for you!!! Always think of the good times you had together!
(My grandma died much too soon when I was only a teenager, but I sometimes dream about her as if she was still alive. That’s strange but also comforting in a way…)
So sorry for your loss. Sending lots of warm thoughts your way.
I am so sorry for your loss–and so thankful you got one last visit with her!
So sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have wonderful memories of your grandmother that you can cherish forever. Be well.
I’m so sorry for your loss. That picture of your grandmother is so beautiful.
I’m very sorry for your loss. I too lost someone I loved this year unexpectedly, and it’s still very hard. You and your family are in my thoughts.
I am very sorry for your loss. Your loving memories of her, and her recipes, will help to heal your heart.
Sorry for your loss :(
Sorry to hear about your grandma…I too lost my grandmother earlier this year. I have no doubt she’s watching over you very proudly, along with your grandpa and dad.
I’m sorry for your loss. Your grandma must have been a lovely woman.
I’m sorry for your loss. Your description about how your grandma was, in reference to cooking and feeding people, reminded me a lot of my own grandmother, and it kind of got to me. I’m very close to my maternal grandparents, so when the day comes that I lose either one of them, it’s going to be hard, so I can only imagine what you’re going through. But, just as you said, she is in a better place now. Praying for peace and strength to get you through this loss…
Next Sunday it will be 9 years since I lost my grandmother, and I still think of her every day. She lived next door to my husband and me, and I would start my day seeing her hand waving to me out her kitchen window. I inherited alot of her recipe boxes and cookbooks, and it is a joy to sit and go through them and reminisce. I’m so sorry for your loss, but I hope that reading through her recipes and making them, and sharing them with us will bring you comfort and peace.
Chelle, I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I know how much she meant to you. ::hugs::
So sorry for your loss, it is always too early to lose somebody we love…
So sorry for your loss, my favorite grandparents were both 91 when they died also…you know it will come but it was still so hard, miss them both!